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党宏宇 130451 力学132 盖德雨 130453 力学132

2014.5.21

The relationship We all have relationships.We have relatives, colleagues, neighbors and probably some friends.However, for a large percentage of us, many of these relationships are simply not fulfilling.They are unfulfilling because they lack real strength; and they lack real strength because they lack real depth.Unfortunately, in today’s society, we tend to have shallow, superficial relationships with others, and it’s extremely hard for this kind of relationships to provide anything more than faint satisfaction.We want to talk about some tips to make your social life a whole lot more meaningful 1.Meet More people If you don’t know a lot of people and you barely meet one or two new people every season of the year, considering the variety of individuals out there, you won’t meet very often people who are a good match with you in terms of personality, interests and values.Conversely, if you go out a lot, you meet a lot of new people and you constantly expand your social circle, you’re much more likely to meet people you match up well with, and these people have a tremendous potential to become good friends, reliable partners, etc.This is why it’s important to meet more people.2.Expre Vulnerability Many people try to come off as perfect.They don’t talk about their failures, they hide their shortcomings and they never say anything that could embarra them.This is all just a facade though.You may appear perfect to some, but you know you’re not perfect and they know that too.You’re only human and humans have flaws.Humans connect with other humans, not with ideals.Keep this in mind and don’t be afraid to let your vulnerability and your humanity show.This is what takes a relationship to the next level.3.Have Integrity Be honest with the people around you, even when this will initially hurt them.It’s more important for them to trust you than to not feel hurt.And always do what you promised.Even better, think twice before you promise anything, and

党宏宇 130451 力学132 盖德雨 130453 力学132

2014.5.21 only promise what you really can and you are willing to do.4.Be There For Others Of course, you can’t be there for everybody, all the time.Your time, energy and other resources are limited.But what you can do is identify the genuinely important people in your life and then seek to be there as much as poible, at least for them.With the right mindset and the right behavior, you can strengthen a wide range of relationships in your life and advance them as far as they can be advanced.

Vocabulary faint adj.模糊的，软弱的

vi.头晕，消失

n.昏倒 shallow facade mindset Question 1.Do you think you are powerle in make new friends?

2.Do you have other way to improve interpersonal relationships? adj.表面的

n.脆弱性 n.表象 n.心态 vulnerability